{"id":330236,"date":"2026-07-01T09:04:00","date_gmt":"2026-07-01T12:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/?p=330236"},"modified":"2026-07-02T10:51:57","modified_gmt":"2026-07-02T13:51:57","slug":"aumento-da-evitacao-afetiva-e-impacto-nos-relacionamentos-fonte-psicologa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/2026\/07\/aumento-da-evitacao-afetiva-e-impacto-nos-relacionamentos-fonte-psicologa\/","title":{"rendered":"O card\u00e1pio infinito dos apps de namoro (e a epidemia da solid\u00e3o)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><!-- --><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-size: 14pt; font-weight: bold; text-align: center;\">\n<p style=\"font-size: 12pt; text-align: center;\"><i>No livro &#8220;Amor Moderno&#8221;, a psic\u00f3loga Danielle Vieira investiga as novas din\u00e2micas dos relacionamentos na era digital e provoca a reflex\u00e3o: por que est\u00e1 cada vez mais dif\u00edcil amar?<\/i><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/ywAAAAAAQABAAACAUwAOw==\" fifu-lazy=\"1\" fifu-data-sizes=\"auto\" fifu-data-srcset=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg?ssl=1&w=75&resize=75&ssl=1 75w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg?ssl=1&w=100&resize=100&ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg?ssl=1&w=150&resize=150&ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg?ssl=1&w=240&resize=240&ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg?ssl=1&w=320&resize=320&ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg?ssl=1&w=500&resize=500&ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg?ssl=1&w=640&resize=640&ssl=1 640w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg?ssl=1&w=800&resize=800&ssl=1 800w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg?ssl=1&w=1024&resize=1024&ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg?ssl=1&w=1280&resize=1280&ssl=1 1280w, https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg?ssl=1&w=1600&resize=1600&ssl=1 1600w\" fifu-data-src=\"https:\/\/i2.wp.com\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg?ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"230\" align=\"left\" hspace=\"10\" \/>Deslizar o dedo pela tela do celular em busca de um novo romance nos\u00a0<em>apps<\/em>\u00a0de namoro tornou-se quase autom\u00e1tico. Mas o gesto revela como os afetos rom\u00e2nticos s\u00e3o marcados hoje pelo medo, defesas, evita\u00e7\u00e3o e controle. No lan\u00e7amento\u00a0<strong><em>Amor moderno: o nosso mundo\u00a0evitativo<\/em><\/strong>,\u00a0<strong>Danielle Vieira<\/strong>\u00a0se apoia\u00a0em refer\u00eancias\u00a0da\u00a0neuroci\u00eancia,\u00a0psicologia, psican\u00e1lise e filosofia\u00a0para investigar por que chegamos nesse ponto: quando o receio da rejei\u00e7\u00e3o leva sujeitos a contornarem o \u201crisco\u201d do v\u00ednculo profundo antes mesmo de viv\u00ea-lo.\u00a0Comportamento\u00a0que, para a especialista em rela\u00e7\u00f5es contempor\u00e2neas, virou uma epidemia da solid\u00e3o.<\/p>&nbsp;&nbsp;\n<p>A an\u00e1lise da obra ajuda o leitor a entender\u00a0a l\u00f3gica de intera\u00e7\u00e3o nos aplicativos de relacionamento\u00a0e redes sociais, al\u00e9m de\u00a0fen\u00f4menos\u00a0cada vez mais comuns:\u00a0<em>ghosting<\/em>,\u00a0<em>situationships<\/em>, medo do compromisso, excesso de op\u00e7\u00f5es e a tend\u00eancia de abandonar rela\u00e7\u00f5es diante da\u00a0primeira decep\u00e7\u00e3o.\u00a0<em>\u201cO mecanismo dessas plataformas aciona descargas frequentes de dopamina no c\u00e9rebro a cada novo \u2018match\u2019, gerando um ciclo de satisfa\u00e7\u00e3o imediata que diminui a toler\u00e2ncia \u00e0 frustra\u00e7\u00e3o\u201d<\/em>, aponta\u00a0a psic\u00f3loga e psicanalista.<\/p>&nbsp;&nbsp;\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ao longo do livro,\u00a0a autora\u00a0explora como\u00a0essa\u00a0cultura da velocidade, da performance e do consumo\u00a0transformou a maneira como amamos.\u00a0Entre mensagens instant\u00e2neas e a possibilidade de conhecer algu\u00e9m a qualquer\u00a0segundo,\u00a0ela explica que se\u00a0tornou cada vez mais dif\u00edcil\u00a0sustentar a espera,\u00a0fazer escolhas,\u00a0construir intimidade\u00a0e se comprometer, al\u00e9m de tolerar as imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es inevit\u00e1veis de\u00a0estar com o outro.<\/p>&nbsp;&nbsp;\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Para fundamentar\u00a0a\u00a0teoria\u00a0da evita\u00e7\u00e3o afetiva,\u00a0<strong>Danielle<\/strong>\u00a0usa o conceito de apego a partir da vis\u00e3o do psicanalista\u00a0<strong>John\u00a0Bowlby<\/strong>, que conecta as inseguran\u00e7as da inf\u00e2ncia \u00e0s rea\u00e7\u00f5es adultas de afastamento defensivo.\u00a0Tamb\u00e9m dialoga com\u00a0<strong>Donald Winnicott\u00a0<\/strong>e<strong>\u00a0Byung-Chul\u00a0Han\u00a0<\/strong>para<strong>\u00a0<\/strong>mostrar que os impasses amorosos atuais n\u00e3o podem ser compreendidos apenas como quest\u00f5es individuais\u00a0\u2013\u00a0eles\u00a0refletem\u00a0as\u00a0mudan\u00e7as culturais\u00a0de um\u00a0<em>modus operandi<\/em>\u00a0moldado pelo imediatismo da tecnologia,\u00a0em uma \u00e9poca que se multiplicam os contatos,\u00a0mas escasseia a presen\u00e7a.<\/p>&nbsp;&nbsp;\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Ao trazer essas din\u00e2micas \u00e0 tona,\u00a0<strong>Danielle Vieira<\/strong>\u00a0prop\u00f5e uma mudan\u00e7a poss\u00edvel: rever a maneira de lidar com as expectativas no ambiente digital, entendendo que se relacionar de forma saud\u00e1vel e duradoura tamb\u00e9m significa\u00a0ser vulner\u00e1vel.\u00a0Sobretudo,\u00a0<strong><em>Amor moderno\u00a0<\/em><\/strong>oferece uma reflex\u00e3o sobre a dificuldade de permanecer quando a novidade passa,\u00a0a inseguran\u00e7a\u00a0de depender emocionalmente de algu\u00e9m e a coragem\u00a0necess\u00e1ria para construir conex\u00f5es reais em meio a um card\u00e1pio infinito de op\u00e7\u00f5es que incentiva a manter todas as portas abertas.<\/p>&nbsp;&nbsp;\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Ficha t\u00e9cnica:<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>T\u00edtulo<\/strong>: Amor moderno<br \/>\n<strong>Subt\u00edtulo<\/strong>: O nosso mundo evitativo<br \/>\n<strong>Autora<\/strong>: Danielle Vieira<br \/>\n<strong>Editora<\/strong>: Labrador<br \/>\n<strong>ISBN-13:<\/strong>\u00a0\u200e978-6550443115<br \/>\n<strong>P\u00e1ginas<\/strong>:\u200e 163<br \/>\n<strong>Formato<\/strong>: 21 x 14 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hspace=\"10\" \/>Sobre a autora:<\/strong>\u00a0Danielle Vieira \u00e9 psic\u00f3loga e psicanalista. Atua h\u00e1 mais de dez anos na cl\u00ednica, pesquisando as rela\u00e7\u00f5es contempor\u00e2neas, os impasses do afeto e as formas de evita\u00e7\u00e3o emocional no mundo atual. Vive entre pa\u00edses, experi\u00eancia que atravessa sua escrita e sua escuta cl\u00ednica.<\/p>&nbsp;&nbsp;\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Instagram<\/strong>:\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram.com\/danielle_vieira\">@danielle_vieira<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; No livro &#8220;Amor Moderno&#8221;, a psic\u00f3loga Danielle Vieira investiga as novas din\u00e2micas dos relacionamentos&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":330237,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"https:\/\/files.pressmanager.net\/clientes\/64a8e8d576d3505a7823819ae1fa6eb7\/imagens\/2026\/06\/16\/78a1b74c2550cefbdccaaf504cd75a99_medium.jpg","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[727],"tags":[58,12885],"class_list":["post-330236","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-noticias","tag-noticias","tag-verdeamarelo","wpcat-727-id"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/330236","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=330236"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/330236\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":330288,"href":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/330236\/revisions\/330288"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/330237"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=330236"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=330236"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/verde-amarelo.net\/verdeamarelo\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=330236"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}